Then you are in luck. Here are hilariously detailed instructions from WikiHow.
[Thanks again, Terry.]
- It is always a good idea, if you are devoted, to have a Lolita lifestyle. Decorate your room/house in that way, bake/cook, have tea parties and cherish everything that is beautiful.
- Male gothic lolitas should take steps to fit the feminine style; shaved/waxed legs, (tasteful) makeup, lipstick, and mascara will promote a more girlish appearance.
- See the movie “Kamikaze Girls,” an entertaining comedy from writer-director Tetsuya Nakashima that serves as a veritable documentary on the Gothic Lolita look.